Never leave your dreams unfulfilled. To begin, pick one thing that’s important to you, set a specific goal for yourself, and get started today This is your race to run. It’s your goal to complete. It’s your answer to create. How your gift compares to someone else’s is not the point. The point is to fill the world with your work.
If what you complete doesn’t meet someone else’s expectations … it is no concern of yours. The way someone else perceives what you do is a result of their own experiences (which you can’t control), their own tastes and preferences (which you can’t predict), and their own expectations (which you don’t set). If your choices don’t match their expectations that is their concern, not yours.
Your concern is to do the work, not to judge it. Your concern is to fall in love with the process, not to grade the outcome. Keep your eyes on your own work.
How can we stay interested in the task at hand whenever we are bored, lose focus, willpower, lack passion or motivation?
Become A Pro
Setting a schedule does not make you a professional. Following the schedule makes you one. For one week follow your schedule without letting life get in the way. Then start again. Enjoy the journey!
“There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is nor how valuable nor how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open.”
By Martha Graham
Once upon a time there was a young woman; fragile and delicately manufactured by a sheltered life. Unfortunately an unexpected blast broke through and got to her. The exposure was surreal and daunting.
Of course there were sitcoms, movies and cartoons – her favorite channel- for escape and exposure to life. She was in a real bad way; withdrawn, cautious and a recluse until the storm came. Her environment had completely changed.
She gave up on her dreams, goals and did almost nothing to celebrate her life. She believed that the weather would always remain dreary and unpleasant. Fortunately the weather never stays the same. She eventually became accustomed to its fickleness; no longer afraid.
Lulls came and left; awareness restored and complacency departing. Her purpose began to form as time passed. She surveys her environment now; disturbance has been her greatest teacher.
Today she is braver; a warrior. Of course the elements granted her grit, persistence, resilience and a robust heart. Filled with insight, confidence and optimism; grateful appreciation; faith in God and mankind isn’t extinguished.
“He has a right to criticize, who has a heart to help.”
― Abraham Lincoln
To be in like company is sometimes a blessing. Yesterday I almost died. It’s crazy. Strange, selfish or foolish it was almost one hour of peaceful darkness. Yes death is too easy.
Extremely tired; fatigued in mind, body and spirit. A curse of giving up. My arguments hold no water. Life is too precious.
Another wake up call. Only cats have nine lives. How many more chances do I get?
Writing now has become more important. What’s different? I wanna give it my best.
Courage is back at my door. It’s been gone for such a very long time. My door is wide open, please come in.
“Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth.”
“Writing is thinking on paper”
“Decide what you want to do. Then decide to do it. Then do it.”
“Less is more.”
Learn how to use the English language in a way that will achieve the greatest clarity and strength.
All About Writing (My reading to write better):
Good writing excites me, and makes life worth living.
by Harold Pinter
Yes I have to write. I wish to write better; but can’t, won’t and don’t.
Ah to be well read and “well said.” If only my words can be wielded with flair like writers I admire. I am discouraged. Yet I still want to write. I must think and study.
Brenda Ueland is right, “everyone is talented, original and has something to say,” but I wont neglect my housework for writing. Nor will I allow my creative urges to be “drummed out” by the many “unloving know-it-alls”: my teachers, critics, friends, family and curious spectators. Ueland taught that the only good teacher was an encouraging friend who “loves you, who thinks you are interesting or very important or wonderfully funny.” I have found this to be absolutely true.
John van Druten said ” I cannot make you a playwright,” and what a pity. Well at least van Druten wrote, ” I can tell you only what I know and think, myself. There will be no rule that is not covered with the phrase ‘to suit my tastes.’ Those tastes may very well not be yours, as they have often not been those of other people. But they are all that I can write.” So in this spirit I collect as many tools to fashion my own writing.
So I will first acquaint myself with the available tools and then choose the appropriate ones for the task at hand. So I will heed good advice.
Truman Capote said:
Writing has laws of perspective of light and shade, just as painting or music does. If you are born knowing them, fine. If not, learn them. Then rearrange the rules to suit yourself.
T. S. Eliot agreed:
It is not wise to violate the rules, until you know how to observe them.
Well this is where I will start!
“It is not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself.”
– Eleanor Roosevelt
My equality is a state of mind. When I value my self worth, I am comfortable with the achievements and the well-being of my friends and associates. No symptoms of a punctured ego occur as I avoid criticizing others or making demands I don´t want to fulfill myself.
On occasion my self-confidence wavers. Big tasks may haunt me. Or visit me when I least expect it. To sometimes lack self-assurance is a facet of the human condition. I must remember that life is purposeful and the events involving me are by design.
May I not pass any task off to another when I face situation I fear that seem more than I can handle. I will remember that I am not given a task for which I am not prepared. For my growth to be complete I will not pass on activities that I need to experience personally.
To fulfill my part of life´s bargain I must do my own growing TODAY!